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Monday, March 11, 2013

How accurate is the author's description of my birth order?


  the personality ,it is difficult to descries as a person  in a group of peer. special about how to develop the difference between sibling in the family .because it would be depend on the environment of that family . 
         
           the author said that "oldest tends tends to develop self concept ".  it might be suit to most of the oldest, but not to me. be self concept show that person will more persistent and truest own sense. but neither for me. the first , i'm not a persistent one. "persistent" can be positive word and negative word.the positive side help to overcome the barrier, the negative side tell us that who is persistent which mean he is hard to accept others advice what is difference from him. a stubborn character. i don't like that, it's easy to make the conflict to others. but , it does not mean that i'm a gentle person, i just some unconcern.  and other expression is more truest own sense,but actually most time  i only trust my sense firmly when i was going to buying a lottery . regretful ,not one got right.
           
     i'm absolute no the one who is self concept. but, it also didn't prove the standpoint of author is wrong . just not be appropriate for all the people in this group.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

a distance to family

          My father came to US just after I was birth. Before I came to here New York city from China, I had not talk with my father in phone even once over 16 years. Actually , I just didn't want to take a conversitation with him , no reason just because I felt it was no necessary. and I was rising up by my grandparent .even my mother was living in the same city  a few mile away, I just had saw her in few time over 16 years, no reason just because I felt it just no necessary too.   for the rest about my younger sister , I just didn't even knew what was she look like before we came to US.   may be i just so zealless in my personality that made me feel  it wasn't  so wired in a regulated family.  even i'm the oldest ,but i was growing in only child environment .